1ST 3MONTH

Memandangkan MY 1st 3month preggy MAK not around(menunaikan HAJI) so I have to take care of myself.And weekend balik to inlaw house,so MIL la tengok-tengok kan.Tapi ALHAMDULILLAH....Sepanjang MY 1st trimester tu,tak ada alahan.Just pening-pening sikit..Tapi if baring and tidur,hilang lah pening tu.Still lagi boleh vacuum ,mengemas, memasak, membasuh..Tak ada la teruk sampai tak boleh bau masakan/sabun, malas or etc...

ALLAH Maha Mengetahui..Mungkin disebabkan MAK not around,so alahan tu tak teruk.Bersyukur sangat.Ye lah,orang ramai cakap,1st 3month of pregnancy memang alahan tu teruk.Some mum to be memang tak larat sampaikan tak boleh bangun.But ME,still can prepared everything to MRF..ALHAMDULILLAH..Tapi kene lah jaga juga,kan..Tak boleh buat kerja berat-berat, tak boleh panjat-panjat etc...Oh,ME tak ada morning sickness so far.And gosok gigi pun tak loya,syukur..

Nowdays dah modern,we just can google everything to get the info.And ME banyak bertanya to MIL and people who more experience.Ye lah,takut juga apa-apa terjadi.Dah lah MAK not around,just beware lah kan.Doa tu penting..

Makanan pula, ME so far so good.Boleh masuk apa je.Tak ada pantang,cuma pantang nampak makanan je.Pantang di ajak makan,semua nye bedal.Tapi ada at one time tu,tak boleh nak makan nasi banyak.Masuk je nasi,rasa nak termuntah.Pernah paksa makan sebab MIL masak lauk sedap time tu,tapi less than 5mins terkeluar balik.So ME just makan porridge,fruits and food yang mengenyangkan.For drinks pula,ME still minum ice water(puas),soya bean and orange.But sometimes if teringin Coke or etc,just rasa je la.Tak ada lah minum banyak.So far in this 1st trimester tak ada lah beria mengidam macam-macam.Just makan anad minum apa yang ada je.But sometimes ada la suddenly nak ice cream lah,tit bits lah something yang IM not into it if normal...Ini lah dinamakan pembawakan..

So to all mum to be dont worry pasal alahan and morning sickness tu.Lain badan lain style of alahan.We just eat and do apa yang diri kita mampu.Dont push yourself if you cant.And jangan terlalu ikut kan mind set..Ye lah dengar cerita orang,pastu mind set pun terikut-ikut..Kan....

Apa pun,1st pregnant sangat berharga..New experience in our life and dapat rasakan kebesaran kuasa Yang Maha Esa...


MUM TO BE...

THANK YOU ALLAH

Since the day yang dah confirm ME preggy,dalam hati ni tak berhenti ucap kan terima kasih ALLAH.Sampai dah tak tahu cara apa lagi yang nak di ucapkan.Besar sangat pemberianNYA kepada hamba yang tak seberapa ni...

Mungkin ini juga lah cara ALLAH nak menyedarkan ME yang telah banyak buat dosa sebelum ni supaya lebih mengingatiNYA.MRF pun macam tu juga.Tak lepas dengan ucapan syukur alhamdulillah...

Yup,for the first trimester of pregnancy(1-3month) some of woman akan ada morning sickness,alahan and etc.Setiap individu akan ada rasa berlainan.Ini semua disebabkan pembawakan.Pening,mual,loya and etc..So at this period lah kita kene jaga betul-betul kandungan ni untuk elak kan kecelakaan.

For ME,I always remind myself to be more positive,relax and jaga pergerakan.Other than that,everyday after Maghrib prayer I always baca Yaasin supaya diri dilindungi(InsyaALLAH akan buat selamanya)..Banyak baca buku panduan Ibu Hamil,buat research and jangan malu bertanya and share story dengan orang yang dah ada experience.Bukan apa,ni semua untuk diri sendiriif lets say ada apa-apa terjadi kan.

Pemberian ALLAH yang tidak ternilai harga nya.So kene lah jaga dengan penuh keikhlasan dan berhati-hati supaya tidah memudaratkan diri..Amin..




THANK YOU ALLAH...

CONFIRMATION WITH DOCTOR

So after  dah buat pregnancy test tu,ME and MRF a bit busy for MAK preparations for HAJI.So ambil masa juga la nak pergi confirm kan with Dr.But that time,period memang dah lambat or maybe dah tak datang,kottttt...So percentage untuk more to positive tu lebih strong la.Masa je tak mengizinkan lagi untuk pergi Klinik.

Few days before MAK went to Mekah, ME and MRF plan nak pergi Klinik.But we dont know which clinic yang OK.Plan nak stick at one clinic only continue for monthly checkup etc.Tapi.....

On that day yang WE all plan nak gi clinic MRF terpaksa pergi office awal.So he cant join ME and MAK..aalllaaaaa...Tak best la kan.Tapi tak apa,MAK teman setia.But we havent decide yet which clinic we should go.I called my sister and asked her.She suggest ME to go to Klinik Mutiara at Ampang.Mak aiii,jauh nya.I went to this clinic few times before and the Dr. is very good and friendly.So tak apa la jauh sikit.But when I called that clinic and asked Dr. on duty,sayang nya Dr.ROHA is on leave....Alamak...

Plan B...called my 2nd brother and asked him the same question.He suggest me to go to Clinic An Nisa,Puchong..His wife went to this clinic before for her monthly pregnancy check up.So,OK je lah.No choice,lagipun untuk confirmation je.

ME and MAK meet my brother  at the clinic area.Agak pening juga lah nak mencari for me yang baru first time datang clinic ni.But actually senang je.MRF keep calling and keep asking, dah check ke belum..Sabar boleh tak...

Nasib tak ramai que,just one person then my turn.Yup,its my turn.I asked MAK and my brother follow me to the Dr. room...As usual,urine test..Then the Dr. asked my first date of last month period...And the result.....ttttaaaaadddddaaaaaa....

congratulation!!!five weeks pregnant!!!


I was like,huh already five weeks.cepat nya.Means during raya lagi dah ada.Patut lah perut rasa lain macam.. and Dr. continue....


and due date around end of MAY/early JUNE 2012


Happy nya time tu tak terkata.Hug MAK sikit...Macam nak menangis pun ada juga.Terharu la katakan.Banyak lah juga advice from this Dr. dari segi modern,traditional and Islam..Bagus sangat...
Maybe lagi happy if MRF around kot.Sama-sama dengar berita gembira ni..

So ME and MAK going back home dengan hati yang happy dan tenang.Banyak MAK advise ME on the way home.Ye lah,berapa hari je lagi MAK nak pergi HAJI.Sure lah MAK risau tak ada orang nak jaga.Oh yuh, MIL belum informed lagi coz MRF nak bagitau sendiri.Hopefully MIL and family happy with this good news..

Antara kelebihan wanita hamil...

• Dua rakaat solat wanita yang hamil lebih baik dari 80 rakaat solat wanita yang tidak hamil.
• 2. Wanita yang hamil dapat pahala puasa disiang hari & pahala ibadat dimalam hari.

YA ALLAH YA TUHAN KU,TERIMA KASIH DI ATAS ZURIAT YANG ENGKAU KURNIA KAN KEPADA AKU DAN SUAMI.AKAN KU JAGA KANDUNGAN INI DENGAN SEBAIK-BAIK NYA...AMIN...

THANKS GOD!!!

AND THE RESULT.....

As ME promised from my previous entry regarding my pregnancy test....and this is the story....

So the next day tu ME and MRF went to nearest GUARDIAN and looking for a pregnancy test.MRF excited pilih yang the best la konon nya.But for ME,semua nya sama je.This time MRF beli 2 different brand.ME,ikut je...

Balik je,MRF terus suruh test before MRF pergi office..This time I know how to use it.But this brand a bit different.So I have to read the instructions carefully.After 3mins,the result still the same as before.One line clear and one line a bit blur..So share this with my sister and she asked ME to try next morning.And she said try to do your 1st urine in the morning..So,OK lah esok try lagi...

The Next Day


Dengan semangat bangun awal sebab nak test.But I dont know why this time I feel a bit nervous compare to  my previous test.Macam tak pernah test pula,kan...So dengan tenang,try...Tapi kali ni instructions tulis wait untill 1min  je.So after 1min....taaaadddaaaaaa

Very clear!!!

MRF : sama macam semalam ke result??If sama kita gi check doctor je la....Sambil baring-baring lagi
ME : tak la,result tak sama but we have to go to doctor juga untuk confirm kan..
MRF : huh??tengok result tu.
ME : tunjuk asambil tersenyum....


Happy sangat time tu.Terima kasih ALLAH..Tapi masih berahsia dengan family lagi.Just two of us yang tahu.After confirm with doctor,baru nak bagitahu family...

TBC...


ALHAMDULILLAH...AMIN...SYUKUR...

NEGATIVE OR POSITIVE????

Fot the first time in my life,I used pregnancy test..Kelakar OK..Tak apa,nama pun 1st time kan..No experience..Tapi malu juga lah coz some people can laugh if I told them that I dont know how to used it.Where should I put my urine??How to see the result??And etc...

So after 2month married with my hero,MRF...I buy my first pregnancy test from pharmacy at SDMC.Beli yang murah and brand biasa je.Kebetulan time tu follow MAK visit her friend.So,saje la beli and try..Excited nak try.Time tu beli without MRF around.But I called MRF and inform him about this thing and MRF sangat excited.Asik xall tanya dah buat ke belum,apa result...Padahal still at the hospital lagi.

Then balik je rumah,terus try.Hehehehehe..Guest what??I dont know how to used it.Memalukan.I read the instructions few times and try..Instructions said wait until 30seconds,so after 30seconds this is my result...

POSITIVE OR NEGATIVE??

Huh..Apa ni.Kat box ni tak ada pun tulis if one clear and one blur..So what is my result??So I buang result ni.Called MRF and told him about the result and text few of my friends(already married) and ask about it.Some of them said I have to try few times to confirm it and some said its positive..But I just take it as negative.Taknak over excited..

So malam tu MRF balik nak tengok result tu juga.Alamak,kan dah buang!!! Tak pasal-pasal cari la dalam tong sampah.Nasib tong sampah tu semua nya sampah kering so tak de la geli sangat nak cari..Haish....

MRF asked ME to try other brand tomorrow...

TBC......



THE CONFIRMATION ON NEXT ENTRY....